The Relationship Intimacy app for very busy couples
Keep the spark alive, without it feeling like “work”.
Over 70% of couples with kids feel like they are more roommates than they are lovers
Is this you?
So you schedule more date nights...
… but life gets in the way
Did you know that cultivating intimacy is like staying fit or being mindful?
It’s the everyday little things that count
More than just about sex... It's about intimacy
Feeling desired. Feeling connected.
Go from 💜 to 💜💜💜🔥🔥🔥
Plan less, play more — with quick games & exercises based on your mood
Make the most of the little time you have by focusing on what matters — you & your partner. Let’s be real, adding “keep spark alive” to a growing to-do list can feel overwhelming and prioritizing couple time gets put on the back burner.
With Gilly, just:
👉 Choose a mood — Love, Play or Surprise me!
👉 Choose a treat — Games & exercises inspired by research and designed to deepen connection and spark playfulness
💜🔥 Enjoy! — Each treat takes less than 15 minutes. It’s the small things, often, that makes the biggest difference.
New treats are curated every week in the app.
Nurture the emotional, physical & sexual intimacy in your relationship
Ok, we know “intimacy” is often used as code for sex. But when you dig a bit further, it is often more than just about sex. It’s about feeling connected, feeling wanted, feeling seen.
Gilly guides you through new ways to love and play through exploring touch, communication, fantasies, and other important life skills to help you grow as individuals and as lovers. There is always something new to learn about each other.
Flirt & keep things fresh even when you’re apart
In happy relationships, it’s not the grand gestures that make the biggest difference — it’s the small things that add up. But life gets busy and moments often just pass by.
“Love Notes” is a super easy way to express & share your love, gratitude and even fantasies with your partner. Safe keep them in “Memories” to make sure those precious moments are cherished amidst the chaos of life. Writer’s block? With Gilly’s guided prompts, there is no such thing!
"All conversations are kid based, house based, in-law based… Gilly is something just for us."
— R, Mother of two, USA
"It’s working great. We’re talking more, having sex more and hanging out more."
— J, Father of two, Canada
"It’s made us prioritise ourselves a little more and communicate. D and [I] didn’t believe we were bad at communicating but this has made us go that little deeper which I think we need."
— S, Mother of one, UK
The Who Behind Gilly
Erin Chen, MscMed
Founder of Gilly
Erin is an advocate for the inclusion of sexual wellness as part of everyday healthy living. She holds a Masters degree in Sexual Health Counselling from the University of Sydney.